In this message we are wrapping up Colossians Chapter 3 which deals with rules for Godly living. We look into walking in GRACE vs living under LAW then we look at Marriage - what is a healthy, Godly marriage? After listing all the do's and don'ts and the rules for Godly living we then learn something very surprising...we are not even supposed to try to do any of it. These rules and lists are just a shadow of things to come...the REALITY is Jesus, Himself. Our job is not to do but to die and allow what He has already DONE to take hold in our lives as we learn to REST in HIS finished work. When we REST He takes care of the REST!